You can’t “make a woman like you” or “change how she feels about you” by doing nice things for her. Doing nice things for a woman who isn’t attracted to you, hurts you. It backfires. Worse, it creates the “Instant Ewww” feeling that makes it so she’ll never like you. In other words, don’t be captain save-a-hoe!
(via bennybing)
You’re right. Also, a decent woman will not let a man who she’s not into, do things for her, because that’s taking advantage of a person.
Women (delusional ones) often think they can do the same thing, make a man like them. Can’t make anybody like you—it’s either there or it’s not.
More words of wisdom from Bennybing, that a lot of folks should listen to.
Learned that the hard way.